Thursday, December 06, 2007

Why?? Why?? Why???

Oh yes, i am asking why why and why?? Why things are not happened as what i expected?? Why it cant be done in the way that i want?? Why ??? I am very upset!!! :-(

Let me share out my dissatisfaction... about hiring a maid. We spend so much money to hire a maid who is a complete stranger to stay in our house for 24 months. When you hire a maid meaning that you are actually risking your family safety and privacy to a COMPLETE STRANGER!!!

This person; who had grown up in different country; different environment; you dont know what she likes/dislikes; you dont know whether or not she is a kind hearted person; you dont know whether she will poison you in your food or drinks; you dont know whether or not you can trust her for taking care of your kids at home; you cannot trust her and you need to keep all valuable things in a secured place in YOUR HOUSE! (and she can access to any area of your house anytime she needs or have to) Other words, NOTHING is secured and safe when you allow a stranger to stay with you.

All the things i mentioned above needs time to prove. We need time to know a person, we need time to observe someone to ensure she can be trusted. She needs to show her respect to us as she is our maid; not a house keeper. You dont reply to my mom and telling her " why i cant do it my way instead of following yours?" The answer is NO because you are staying in my house so you need to follow my way without any question ask. Thats the type that i want, you dont give too many comments to my mom when she instructs you how to do your job.

If she ask you to wash the dishes, you wash, you dont answer "I wash later la." And the maid that i like, our children like, the maid that we had already familiar with, the agency told me she cannot be transfered. WHY??? WHY you cant do it?? How much money you ppl need, just tell us!!! I want the maid you sent us earlier, we want her and WHY you ppl tell me you cant do it unless this and that... blablabla....!!!

I am so upset of sending the maid back you know?? I want her to work for my mom, but WHY things happened this way?? Why what we want it to happen never happened?? And what we dont want always come to us?? Why ??

Someone tell me WHY!!!!

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