Wednesday, March 29, 2006

The first meeting

This is the extended story from my last post. Well i was so nervous for the meeting. I reached the meeting place half an hour earlier but i did not call him; i was waiting in my car untill he calls. I was counting the time and hoping the meeting will not take too long. Huh! Since i am so...dont want to meet this guy, why am i still going ? So stupid and what a waste of my time!

Then again, i just dont want to be rude. Well, even though i dont intend to go any further with this guy i still meet him. The reason is that i think both of us need to sit down for a chat. Just make it as a normal internet friend meeting, Ok?

Ok lets start here; I waited until he calls, he was quite early so i walked to the restaurant. Wow, his face is so easy to identify, i mean it is exactly like his picture. As usual, the first word -- " Hi *Ben, is Yui Ying here!" Then i sit down and he starts the talking. He talked alot and of course asked alot too.

I didnt talk much and all i wanted is to end the meeting as soon as possible. He asked me whether i want to know the reason why he stop calling me. My answer was

Me :Well, *Ben it really doesnt matter anymore, it is up to you whether
to tell me or not.

*Ben: Then why are you here?

Me : I am hungry. ( Great liar )

*Ben: (smiling) Oh, you can start order the food, dont feel 'paise' ya!

Me :Oh dont worry i am hungry, i surely eat alot.

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When the dinner finished, *Ben started to raise his questions to me.

*Ben: What is your weak points?

Me : Er.....let me think, i am agressive, hot temper, forgetful, defensive and....... ( i forgot what i told him )

*Ben: Your good points?

Me : Erm....i dont know, i dont praise myself.
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As you guys can see, this is like very boring chit chat session. Here comes the last question.

*Ben: Dont take me wrongly, i mean do you still want to start over again?

Me : Well, *Ben I just want to be friends.

No changes on his face and so do i. Then he asked me where to go after the dinner, then i told him i am not used to go out during weekdays.

................silence................

As just what i expected, he got up and pay for the bill and say "Tata". Well, i think that is the first and last meeting for both of us. I felt like ........i shouldnt have gone for the meeting.

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